But it really leads us to believe he doesn't understand the sensitivity of minority groups, especially the gay and lesbian community. At least with this explanation, we can put the matter to rest.

I just don't think he understands how dehumanizing his comments were to gay and lesbian people and how hurtful they were to gay and lesbian students. This is the best we're going to get from Tom Lynch. It's more of an explanation than an apology.

Once this law takes effect, gay and lesbian couples legally partnered anywhere in the world will have domestic partnerships, civil unions, or marriages recognized automatically.

With reciprocity, any couple legally partnered anywhere in the world will have their relationship recognized automatically while in Palm Beach County.

Tom Lynch may not be the only one who could use a sensitivity workshop.

It doesn't appear he understands the sensitivity to gay and lesbian students when a word like that is used.

Many couples choose not to marry so that they may preserve their social security, pension, and veterans benefits. And marriage is not an option for tens of thousands of gay and lesbian Palm Beach County couples in committed relationships.

It is so important that these relationships receive this recognition, so that no patient in a hospital, nursing home or convalescent center will ever be denied the comfort of being with their loved ones.

I believe this memorandum is the best we are going to get from Tom Lynch. While the Council had hoped for a public apology at the upcoming School board meeting, it doesn't appear that will happen. It is time to put this matter behind us, and hope for the best.